The first kiss my boyfriend and I shared as friends-who-now-know-they-like-each-other was nothing short of terrifying. I pulled him into what I thought would be a sweeping, spark-filled smooch and he just stood there, hardly moving. The rest of the date was even more catastrophic. We nervously drank too much and watched Sweet Home Alabama on his bed without looking at each other. I was convinced we had no chemistry and that I ruined a perfectly-great friendship. All to say: I have been there.
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Cue that awkward point in your life when most of your friends have had their first loves by 18 and you still have yet to find one person you're interested in. For the ladies who can relate, you weren't single because you couldn't snag someone; you were simply holding out for someone better, someone you could really connect with. You didn't want to waste time with the might-have-beens, the jerks, or the players — reasons I actively avoided dating in middle school and even high school. Although many people would argue you have to date around to truly discover what you want, I can confidently say when you know, you know.
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First boyfriend advice is always welcome, even if you already talked to someone about it. Take a look at the list we compiled and learn everything there is to know about the matter, to be prepared for it. When you have your first boyfriend, it is possible that all you think about is cute things to make for your boyfriend.
You've been dating that special someone for awhile now and established that you aren't seeing other people. You're calling each other pet names like "babe" and "honey," seeing each other every weekend, but you haven't exclusively given yourselves that label yet. Whether you believe in titles or not—you my friend, are in what we call…a relationship. You don't always clean up your place before he comes over anymore. You used to care about your place looking tidy, but now you don't freak out over dirty dishes in the sink or an unmade bed.