It's sad that this generation's idea of dating has become so convoluted. It has turned into bouncing from person to person and having random hookups, but not taking the time to get to know someone and fall in love. This generation has developed a bad habit of just dating to date. When, honestly, we should be dating to marry right now.
Why is Online Dating So Hard for Men?
Why Is Dating So Freaking Hard? | Thought Catalog
As hard as it is now to admit, I was that young Christian girl who jumped on the bandwagon of kissing dating goodbye—except, of course, for dating Jesus. Interacting with the opposite sex became this pressure-filled, awkward interaction that left me feeling confused, impatient and lacking control. Then in walked Mr. Prince Somewhat-Charming. He initiated, and I responded.
Why Is Dating So Freaking Hard?
Modern dating is tough and while dating apps and sites are supposed to make the process easier, for many, technology is often the leading culprit in disastrous experiences. For instance, many dating experts say that while having lots of choices can help you find more easily someone who fits your wants and needs, it also has a downside: there are more opportunities for miscommunication and misunderstandings. This guy on Reddit shared his experience regarding an attitude that can be considered a classic in the dating world from both men and women. He revealed he has gone through the same experience twice only in the last month: in both cases, his attraction towards the woman was reciprocated, but he was always the one to text first.
And I can tell you now one of the easy indicators of a bad mindset around dating is when someone believes that they have it hard, and everyone else has it easy. So I wanted to write this blog to show that there are at least 2 sides to every story…. Side note: if you do feel like everyone else has it easy, you not so much, I do understand. I remember a terrible time in my life, which I mentioned in my TED talk.